Photograph by Dennis Eichmann / Connected Archives
WORDS BY HANNAH ROSE MÉNDEZ
Picture this: It’s morning, you’ve woken up with the sun in time to hear the birds sing their morning songs. You put on your slippers and robe to make yourself a cafecito and peer out your window to watch people starting their days, and hopefully, catch the latest neighborhood chisme. Then, maybe, you tend to your garden, or sit in your favorite chair to read for a bit, or turn on some old school tunes to sweep the house.
Such is the idealized morning routine of a señora, an older Latin woman, typically an aunt, mother, or grandmother—slow and restful, drinking in every moment of the day with tranquility. It’s a life that Latines have traditionally lived for centuries. A life that, in the plight of immigration to the United States and other western countries, dissipates and is replaced by a relentless hustle culture for those working to provide for their families. Here, rest and self-care has become a luxury for immigrants and Latines across the country, who make up 18% of the labor force but have to work harder for less. In 2022, Latinas working full-time were paid $0.57 for every dollar earned by white, non-hispanic men.
And yet, in many regions across Latin America, rest is embedded into the fabric of society. Most famously, this manifests in the form of the afternoon siesta. It’s not uncommon for businesses to close down for a few hours in the middle of the work day to allow people to recharge and reconnect in order for them to then continue on in a healthy and productive manner. But this practice doesn’t translate in the United States, where work—above all else—is the priority. For many Latines living or working in the U.S., healthy rest and slow living practices have become a thing of the past.
Every year, Americans are losing more sleep on average than they had the year before as a result of climate change-induced warmer nights, technological distraction, and worsening stress levels. It’s a worrying trend that disproportionately affects BIPOC communities. While most adults require a minimum of between seven and nine hours of sleep per night, about one in three Latines sleep less than seven hours on average. Mexican-Americans are losing sleep the fastest, experts say, at more than double the rate of non-Hispanic white Americans.
The systemic sleep deprivation of Latines is perhaps best visualized by photographer Alejandro Cartagena, who between 2011 and 2012, documented Mexican construction workers squeezed in the beds of trucks on their way to work. The series, titled “Carpoolers”, shows workers sprawled among their tools catching some extra sleep, using their shirts to cover their faces or even cardboard as makeshift blankets. The truck is their last chance to get some shut-eye before they start their day, likely not to lay their head on a pillow until much later that night.
“Sleep is one of the ways in which we embody the world around us. When we lay down to sleep, all the things our body interacts with physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually gets integrated into who we are.”
Hard work and hustle is embedded into Latine culture, especially for immigrants often working for minimum wage. For them, a siesta, or any time for self-care, could mean taking away crucial dollars that help put food on the table.
Researchers in Nogales, Arizona are investigating how social circumstances impact sleep for Latines along the U.S.-Mexico border—who make up 80% of the county’s nearly 48,000 residents. The research is being carried out as part of the Nogales Cardiometabolic Health and Sleep Study (NoCHeS) to better understand how border contexts shape sleep patterns in the region, and to show just how crucial sleep is for our overall health. “Sleep is one of the ways in which we embody the world around us,” said Dr. Michael Grandner, director of the Sleep and Health Research Program at the University of Arizona and co-principal investigator on the study “When we lay down to sleep…all the things our body interacts with physically, emotionally, mentally, [and] spiritually gets integrated into who we are.”
Sleep is so crucial to our embodied wellbeing that a lack of rest can be a matter of life and death. One of the long-term impacts of sleep deprivation is a weakened immune system, which increases the risk of developing diabetes and heart disease. For Latines living on the border, researchers are finding a multitude of socioeconomic factors play into their ability to get a good night’s sleep, including family dynamics, acculturation, work stress, and militarization along the border.
One of the metrics that NoCHeS studies is “Americanness” and “Mexicanness.” As a measure of acculturation, “Americanness” and “Mexicanness” work as two axes that help determine how closely an individual feels they fit into U.S. society. “Among people of Mexican descent living around the U.S. border, Americanness has some benefits, but also has some risks,” said Dr. Grandner. “We’re finding that people who are scoring higher on Americanness are more likely to access medical care or have better socioeconomic prospects, but they also have more insomnia. They’re sleeping less, have more sleep apnea symptoms, and their overall sleep quality is worse. There’s something going on in that cultural transition that isn’t just a benefit.”
This sentiment of needing to acculturate reverberates throughout immigrant communities living in the U.S., many having sacrificed certain aspects of their own culture in order to fit into an imposed “American” lifestyle. The impacts can be felt generationally, too. “You have families with multiple generations of their own families or multiple people all living under one household,” said Patty Molina, senior director of community health services at Mariposa Community Health Center. “That’s a lot of stress that is put on the main head of the household.” This stress can be passed down as older generations retire and younger generations enter the workforce, taking on the role of supporting their immediate family—and sometimes even distant members who have remained in their home countries.
It’s no wonder, then, that some Latines are wanting to launch their señora eras early; those desperate to break cycles of stress and overworking, and instead step into the chanclas of their elders. Today, a new generation of Latines are set on rewriting such narratives, and returning to ancestral ways of living slowly—a call in to their “señora eras.”
More than a trend, the “señora era” is a movement—a reminder that rest, and slowing down as a return to self, is crucial.
The pandemic, which forced much of the world to slow down and remain in their homes, launched the señora era trend on social media. Today the hashtags #SeñoraEra and #SeñoraTok have amassed 19.2M and 1.5M respective views on TikTok alone. It also kickstarted the lifestyle blog, Señora Era, which has garnered over 50,000 amigas looking to pursue the slow, señora life. It’s what inspired Brooklyn-based, Mexican-American roommates Jaqueline Padilla and Alexis Mendias to create “City Señoras,” a social club born from a conversation they’d had in their kitchen about bringing together young Latines seeking to set their señora eras into motion.
“I’m done with my girl boss era,” Mendias told Atmos, “At least, for now.”
City Señoras hosted its first event in August, and according to Mendias, it was “very humbling… almost no one came.” That was when they decided to harness the power of social media; to put themselves out there online, reach a wider, like-minded audience, and build a community beyond their kitchen. The impact was immediate. The subsequent events saw dozens of señoras, all ready to bask in self-care and community. “[City Señoras] is a group that’s been needed and that’s why so many people have shown up,” says Padilla.
@citysenoras We did a self-care señora walk and cafecito in Central Park ☕🌳 and after we sat in the meadow to play lotería! Thank you to all the señoras who came out to prioritize their self-care and connect with others in the city! We hope to see you at the next one and future #CitySeñoras events ❤️ Follow us on IG for updates and to RSVP. Send this to a city señora you want to go with next time! #cityseñoras #cityseñora #newyork #señoralife #selfcare #selflove #señoraera #latinastiktok ♬ MAÑANA SERÁ BONITO – KAROL G & Carla Morrison
Padilla and Mendias recognize the importance of prioritizing one’s self in order to better serve the whole, and that’s one of their hopes for the señoras in the group. “Taking a step back to help restore yourself can help you move so many more steps forward versus continuing to be an ox and work, work, work until you burn out,” said Padilla. “[At the end of the day,] you don’t want to put any burden on others for how you feel…This being a social self-care club, you recognize that you need to care first for yourself before you can serve others or serve your community.” The hope for the group is to expand to cities across the country, and to support as many small, local, Latine-owned businesses as is possible along the way.
More than a trend, the “señora era” is a movement—a reminder that rest, and slowing down as a return to self, is crucial. And beyond that, it’s a reclamation of ancestral ways of living, a radical resistance to the colonizing mindset that positions our worth as conditional on our contributions to a neoliberal, capitalist society reliant on overworking underserved communities. Tricia Hersey, founder of the Nap Ministry, said it best: “We can imagine a new world. A new world is possible, but it’s not going to come from exhaustion.”
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The Rise Of The Señora: Why Latines Are Reclaiming Ancestral Slow Living Practices
